Why should you get to know blademan1?

Much flirtation advice can be damaging to one’s mental health because it invariably can’t be followed by a man without subjecting himself to acute embarrassment. Indeed, the only sort of men who usually do follow this advice are most probably stupid, insensitive, or deranged. These latter traits of course are hardly those that are most preferred by women, yet indiscriminate flirting often sets you up to be seen in just that way

The art of flirtation of course gets short shrift, since you probably have so much to offer anyway, its no reflection on you if the woman clobbers you after you favor her with your desirable attentions. After all, the male personality comes only in one flavor anyway, ‘brazenly bold’, for he knows not the meaning of embarrassment.


Because all the attractive personal qualities a woman could want are incorporated under the vague and superficial virtues of ‘presence’ and ‘style’, more substantial qualities such as integrity, a sense of humor, intelligence, and ambition are discounted in importance. The impression is made that a man can have the appearance and brains of Mr. Potato Head and still make out fine with the ladies as long a he has a good wardrobe , a varied selection of one liners and smell's good .

Born and bred in Cape Town - I am a consultant so I tend to travel around SA a lot , I am currently based in Cape Town, Pretoria and UK. If you can fit me into ur daily schedule lemme' know.


Careerwise right now I am fine.
Social life almost non-existent, forget i already mentioned pub, what about the golf club forget it (i can't even perfect my swing).

“Never take on the fools.
They are not so dangerous as they seem,
do not try to change them. Morons can do you more harm.
They can do something that will cause quite a stir among all."

He describes his ideal match thus:

Sorry guys, it’s a lot more complex and difficult to ‘score (excuse me for my vain attempt in using the proper male Vernacular instead of the more excepted linguae francae’ with women than that. And for all those stories you’ve been hearing, and for all those silly pick up books and articles you’ve been reading, you’ve just been listening to too many fish stories.

This is not too important but as I have stated earlier I am looking to meet new people honest and trustworthy.

Just be true to yourself !!!!!!


"Male-female relationships are never based on trivial and cartoonish motivations, and men err seriously by thinking that women also can think of nothing better than playing sexual games of tag, with a new person being ‘it’ ."